Toi & Moi
The Toi et Moi ring is one of the most romantic jewellery designs in history. The name comes from French and literally means “You and Me.” Traditionally, the ring features two gemstones set side by side, symbolizing two individuals joined together while still retaining their own identities.
The style is most famously associated with Napoleon Bonaparte and Joséphine de Beauharnais. In 1796, Napoleon proposed to Joséphine with a ring featuring two pear-shaped stones placed together (a diamond and a sapphire). That engagement ring became one of the earliest and most famous examples of the Toi et Moi style, helping popularize it among European aristocracy. The symbolism was powerful for its time. One stone represented Napoleon. One stone represented Joséphine. Together, they represented a union of two lives.
Because the two stones are often different, the ring can also symbolize:
- Opposites attracting
- Complementary personalities
- Different backgrounds coming together
Unlike a solitaire ring, which focuses attention on a single stone, a Toi et Moi ring naturally tells a story. People often choose different stone shapes, colors, or sizes to reflect the personalities of the two people involved.
Today's Toi et Moi rings also often carry meanings beyond romantic love:
- A parent and child
- A friendship or lifelong bond
- A personal reminder of two important life chapters
Details
Metal: 18k solid gold (hallmarked 750)
Gemstones:
Lab-grown white diamond
- 3.00 ct
- Color grade D–E
- Clarity VVS1–VVS2
- Radiant cut
- Cut, polish and symmetry: Excellent
Lab-grown pink diamond
- 2.00 ct
- Color grade D-E
- Clarity VVS1–VVS2
- Pear cut
- Cut, polish and symmetry: Excellent
Certification: IGI certificate included for both stones
Delivery
This ring is made to order. Expect delivery in 4-6 weeks. Once your order has shipped, you will receive an email with further information. Delivery times vary depending on your location.
Warranty
This ring comes with a 2 year warranty.
For more information on the warranty, please visit our Terms & Conditions page
Return
This item can be returned for a full refund within 14 days of receipt. Read more about our return policy here
Customize this ring
If you love this design but would like to modify it, for example use a different center stone or different setting, please get in touch for a non-binding price quote at Hi@Byhnoss.com
Engraving
Write your custom engraving here, or leave blank for a clean finish.